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It makes me sad that everything is so over-complicated and I will say for the millionth time that lumping Asperger’s syndrome into Autism did NOT help this.
Instead of focusing on therapy that could help make sense of everything that snowballed from this ONE cognitive deficit, we exist in a society that has no practical advice to give adult men with Asperger’s syndrome or the NT women who are married to them.
We knew the man we loved was different (and certainly not cunning enough to be a sociopath) but we felt loved by him once…
and that kind of love cannot exist without emotional empathy.
At first, the transition to a new world is exciting and you embrace the new culture and your new love’s environment with incredible enthusiasm.
Eventually though, you find it more and more challenging to acclimate to this foreign land and even more difficult to communicate to your husband how you are feeling.
We think we want this but honestly, it would probably suck royally if our spouse DID know everything we were thinking on any given day. We have tried everything we could think of over the years (and decades for some) and yet we still come up short.
If they don’t know what it is we NT wives saw in our husbands that made us fall for them in the first place, it is easy to dismiss that we DID see emotional empathy in the beginning.
Ok, so I know you NT wives wish there was some easy method of getting your husband to think the way you do.